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To My Friends…

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Dear Readers First, I will no longer be calling you readers because you are now my friends and I am now yours. So, friends, I want you to know that I hear you and connect with you. I come to you from a place fueled by a combination of anxiousness and eagerness. I am anxious to share the fun, amazing, and light-hearted parts of me, yet, I am terrified about the parts that aren’t so pretty. Despite the anxiety, I know sharing is more important than anyone’s judgment because I am simply one example of hundreds, thousands, or even millions of people who are just like me. People who share my hard times, bad days, anxiety, fear, and self-consciousness. People who face the same treatment, hate, and negativity from others. People who have to get up every day and do things that they do not want to do to survive…

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Ivy League Inspired Casual Look

This is a good look for work and easy to pull off. If you buy men’s pants and jackets whether you are male or female, I recommend finding a good cheap tailor. If your city has a K&G they always keep a good tailor on hand who is reasonable. INC Men’s Slim-Fit Glen Plaid Pants Everyday Crew-Neck Sweater for Men Men’s Slim Fit Essential Oxford Dress Shirt Oxblood The Rome Boot INC Stretch Slim-Fit Blazer

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Business Casual – Colors Matter

What to Know About Business Casual (From a Masc Perspective) Let me be real — business casual used to feel like a personality killer to me. Like… you mean to tell me I gotta walk into work looking like every other person in a navy button-down and khakis? That never sat right with me. Especially as a masculine-presenting woman, where style already feels like a balancing act between how you see yourself and how the world reads you. I like structure. I like clean fits. I like looking put together. But I also like looking like me. And for a long time, business casual felt like it was asking me to shrink that. Typically, in work environments, most masculine-presenting people (and men in general) default to the easy go-to: polos, button-downs, and pants. Clean. Simple. Predictable. And listen — there’s nothing wrong with that. I wear that too. But where…

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Coming Into My Own Style

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So many things affect finding a style that looks right on you. Honey, let me tell you, this has always been a struggle for me. I’ve always wanted to have a certain look yet, never could figure out how to pull it off. What I learned is that my struggle was bigger than what I wanted but was more about how I felt.  I’m not insecure but I’m fasho self conscious. Being a Black woman who is a masculine presenting lesbian (stud *inserts eye roll), I constantly thought about how something looks on me, would this look good, or even how would people perceive me. I work in an environment that is easily 95% (and I’m being generous) white and in the south, if not this job, any other environment here. I often wondered if what I wear is too masculine would people feel a way about how I look.…

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