I want requited love in everything whether it’s in my friendships, family, or even romantic relationships. I want to know that the love and effort I put into someone else is been given to me in return. It’s one of those things that I may be foolish in believing that I can have because everyone isn’t going to be the same. Everyone isn’t going to love you how you want to be loved or love you back and they’re not required to do any of those things. But, I can set boundaries and I can ask God to remove those who aren’t supposed to be here, in my life, because I deserve what I put out. And, if I love myself as much as I put love into others I need to set better boundaries and better requirements to live in the space I give someone in my heart. I…
I have several reasons why I do not want to be monogamous, which I will explain further into this but first let’s think about the information and history of the idea of monogamy. Monogamy is the practice or state of being married to one person at a time. The practice or state of having a sexual relationship with only one partner. Although we don’t know where it started the general idea is that lower ranking males started using the alternative strategy of pursuit of one woman, whereas, the higher ranking males either had many wives or many concubines. This in return made women feel better as they were the only ones receiving attention, love, protection and more from a suitor. In essence, this was a concept created by men to benefit men because women were not historically polygamous. Polygamy is marriage with more than one spouse. When a man is…
When you date a woman.. you indeed date her friends too!! A woman’s friends can make or break you!! They can be your biggest ally or your biggest enemy but that is up to you.. Beware of: Screenshots of pics being sent to her by them Running into them out and about What you say and do on social media Who her friends may know When dating you will date her friends.. tips to help you stay on their good side At the club buy her closest friend a drink if you can afford it all of them. Buy the drink and keep it moving.. disappear after that with some check ins Invite her friend to dinner with you two Do NOT be too friendly with her friends Like a pic on social media or even RT.. do not engage in too much convo Lastly, do NOT let her have…

